395:-fitting stations seem to have predominated. The first day she arrived for work, there was, initially, nowhere to sit; since the sick colleague, whose desk had temporarily been assigned in the "Feuilleton" department for the new staffer, had unexpectedly returned to work. Nor was the initial salary of 1,000 marks per month generous: she had often earned three times as much as a free-lance journalist. She seemed at the time more or less to have accepted that the salary disparity arose because she had no university degree, rather than having to do with her gender. Nevertheless, there was much about the security of the permanent post that suited her, and she remained on the
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391:. She was operating in a milieu in which women were still rare. There were 152 contributing editors of whom 142 were men. (By 2019, in contrast, 302 of the paper's 402 contributing editors were men.) The office was nevertheless already familiar to her, since she had been visiting – at times two or three times in a week – to deliver and discuss contributions while working "as a freelancer" since the late 1950s. The staff were housed in a cramped building incongruously located in a commercial district of Frankfurt where used-car show rooms and
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