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that could react to basic greetings, though it had limitations regarding longer conversations. As part of
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to talk about his relationship. He has also done lectures elsewhere. In March 2020, Gatebox, responsible for
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March 2018. Kondo said that his life did not have "color" before receiving the device; being able to interact with
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