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244:’s views are expressed, notably by three former headmasters – Frank Fisher, Tom Howarth and Oliver van Oss. The latter is particularly pompous, reducing the discussion to farce, an old trick that headmasters use when faced with pupils or masters demanding change. I say a few words in favour of admitting women but it is decided that there will be a postal vote and I guess the backwoodsmen will carry the day. In the obscurity of the closet, the bishops and deans will vote for the cosy status quo. 360:
those in authority in the Church …… The Nobody’s Friends dining group has been described as ‘private’ rather than a secret group, but it still represents an exclusive world of male privilege within the heart of the Anglican establishment. When Bishop John Bickersteth once revealed that his appointment to Bath and Wells followed his being ‘spotted’ at a Nobody’s dinner, we began to get the feeling that the values of our church may incline towards
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A men-only dining club that meets regularly at Lambeth Palace, known as Nobody’s Friends, appears to be a gathering for socially very well-connected Anglicans. Although originally high church in its origins, the club provides an opportunity for a privileged church group to network and sometimes lobby
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prefaced with the phrase "May I presume on a brief acquaintanceship at dinners of Nobody's Friends?" When asked about the club in his evidence to the Inquiry, Lord Lloyd described Nobody's Friends as "simply a club, half consisting of the clergy, members of the clergy, and half consisting of members
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He was a member of "Nobody's Friends"—a body which dines in Lambeth Palace, half of whom are lay people and half of whom are ecclesiastical. I will not explain why what I am about to say happens, but the group is called "Nobody's Friends" because people who are elected to it have to make a
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had once described it as "centred on a strong core of bishops, ex-Tory ministers and former military top brass, a highly secretive, all-male group representing Britain's most entrenched professions and institutions." Lord Lloyd replied, "That's a typical
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The club grew to consist of 50 members, half clergymen and half laymen, and met three times a year. Between 1800 and 1900 membership included three archbishops, forty-nine bishops, twenty Cathedral deans, many peers and baronets, and members of the
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description of something they don't particularly like, but I can assure you that Nobody's Friends is a perfectly ordinary dining club..." The same article that IICSA drew upon in the hearing indicated that Prime Minister
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seven-minute speech to explain why they are nobody's friend. It will not surprise your Lordships' House that John Belstead did that particularly well.
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A Field Guide to the English Clergy: A Compendium of Diverse Eccentrics, Pirates, Prelates and Adventurers; All Anglican, Some Even Practising
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The dinner is good and I enjoy the company of the Archbishop of Canterbury sitting beside me, but I can’t think why I joined except that
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of the laity, which dine together probably twice a year, very often in Lambeth Palace." The IICSA counsel pointed out that the
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Lay Activism and the High Church Movement of the Late Eighteenth Century: The Life and Thought of William Stevens, 1732-1807
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Lay Activism and the High Church Movement of the Late Eighteenth Century, The Life and Thought of William Stevens, 1732–1807
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Biographical List of the Members of "The Club of Nobody's Friends" since Its Foundation 21 June 1800 to 30 September 1885
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The Last of the Prince Bishops: William Van Mildert and the High Church Movement of the Early Nineteenth Century
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The Oxford History of Anglicanism, Volume III: Partisan Anglicanism and its Global Expansion 1829-c. 1914
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who became a writer and philanthropist, leading figure in the High Church movement, and Treasurer of
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It is believed that women have since been admitted as members, but this is not known for definite.
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are both members. After dinner, we discuss the admission of women to membership and some very odd
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The club, often referred to simply as Nobody's Friends or Nobody's, was founded in honour of
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The Club of "Nobody's Friends," Since Its Foundation on 21 June 1800 to 29 April 1902
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The Club of 'Nobody's Friends' 1800-2000: A Memoir on Its Two-hundredth Anniversary
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and institutional interests rather than a personal morality based on the
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dining. It may be assumed that presentation of the courses was in the
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Liberal Intellectuals and Public Culture in Modern Britain, 1815-1914
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consisting of ten or more courses, standard at that time in formal
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Memoirs of William Stevens, Esq. Treasurer of Queen Anne's Bounty
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Volume II. (London: Printed for Private Circulation, 1902)
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The Old Boys' Network: A Headmaster's Diaries 1970-1986
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A Nobody's menu from 1891 shows a club dinner at the
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The current President of Nobody's is believed to be
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Index

Lambeth Palace
dining club
High Church
Church of England
London
Lambeth Palace

William Stevens
Crown and Anchor Tavern
Strand
Hackney Phalanx
Freemasons' Tavern
Connaught Hotel
hosier
Queen Anne's Bounty
pen name
House of Commons
privy councillors
Royal Society
Society of Antiquaries
Hotel Metropole, London
Victorian
service à la russe
bishop of Norwich
Launcelot Fleming
The Old Boys' Network
John Rae
Westminster School
Edward Carpenter
Burke Trend

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