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mainly it is the knowledge between the partnership of who plays the dominant role and who plays the submissive. The commitment of knowing who afflicts and receives the pain, bondage, torture, and/or humiliation. As well as the fact that all erotic experiences are performed in a safe, legal, and consensual practice as well as benefiting both parties. The consensual practice is what helps distinguish BDSM participants from a psychiatric diagnosis of a sexual disorder. The community of BDSM has adopted the saying "Safe, Sane, Consensual" (SSC) and "Risk-Aware Consensual Kink" (RACK) and a new addition "Caring, Communication, Consent, and Caution" (4Cs). Consent has also been categorized into three groups: surface, scene, and deep consent. Surface consent has been defined as a simple yes or no. Scene consent has been described as including parameters of a top/ bottom negotiation and agreement of a play scene. While deep consent involves the mental capacity of the bottom (submissive) and the awareness of the top that the bottom is able to use a safeword. The BDSM community have a simple code of conduct concerning the boundaries of safety and negotiation to ensure consensual BDSM.
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agreed-upon activities. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) is an educational organization that is driven to propose positive and safe sex that was founded in 1997. They conducted a survey with 4,598 participants in BDSM and 1,307 of them reported being touched without consent. Out of the participants, 26% reported they were attacked by a predator and 33% said they were coerced. 81% of the sample said that during the activity they wanted it to stop. It is important to include that participants of BDSM are not more likely to be coerced or sexually assaulted, there is no significant relationship between the two. That being said just because someone participates in a dominant and submissive relationship does not mean they will eventually be sexually assaulted or coerced.
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the end to a scene, or activity and possible withdrawal of consent completely. Within the community of BDSM, there are universal safewords used according to traffic lights and known as "house safewords". Red means stop everything, yellow means slow down and to not go any further, and green meaning go and continue with more intensity. There are also possibilities where speaking is not an option and so there are "silent safewords" that are simple gestures that represent stopping an activity, for example, clapping hands, snapping fingers, or any action showing the scene must end. The use of safewords and the abode of them go hand and hand with consent and negotiation. All of it ensures a safe space where both participants are able to enjoy the sexual play.
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consequences for people who break the built trust and disobey the rule of consent and boundaries. Some punishments include being blacklisted from the community and labeled as a "predator." Being blacklisted includes being personally ridiculed by individual members, as well as exclusion from play parties, clubs, and organizations held by the community.
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perform. There is a complexity to negotiation depending on the trust and emotional attachment the partners have towards each other, the more familiarity between the two the less negotiation needed. The extent of negotiation depends on the partner's involvement, for example, less risk behavior the less negotiation needed.
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It is not unusual to grant consent only for an hour or for an evening. When a scene lasts for more than a few hours, it is common to draft a "scene contract" that defines what will happen and who is responsible for what. It is a good way to work out what all the parties want and usually improves the
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The BDSM community takes consent very seriously and promotes safe play. They provide many resources so people may learn how to respect consent, such as education, information, and safety. They also provide public playrooms with dungeon monitors to make sure the rules are kept and followed. They have
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Safewords are verbal codes both partners can recognize as the end or altering of activities done in a BDSM scene. It is an important asset to continue the consent through the relationship and scene itself. The use of a safeword at any time, regardless of the intensity of the scene, usually signifies
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A study in 2008 found that only 2.2% of men and 1.3% of women had participated in a BDSM activity in the previous year. In 2017, a Belgian study of BDSM interest in the general population, with a sample size of 1,027, found that 46.8% of the total sample had ever performed at least one BDSM-related
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Many submissives in a submissive relationship wear a collar to indicate their submissive status and commitment. It can be much like a wedding band, except that only the submissive partner wears one. The traditional collar is a neck band in leather or metal, chosen, designed, and even crafted by the
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Although they take all the precautions to the events, coercion and sexual assault still occur inside and outside the community. There are many forms to this that include, knowingly violating consent, accidental violations, and misunderstandings from the lack of communication towards definitions and
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female chores such as housecleaning or serving tea. Cross-dressing in D/s does not always involve a desire to be sissified or made into caricatures of women or to serve: for example, others may desire to be made as beautiful as possible and interact on a "girlfriend-to-girlfriend" non-sexual basis.
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Some people in the D/s world capitalize words and names that refer to dominants, and do not capitalize those that refer to submissives, hence the capitalization of D/s; others do not. It was popularized in internet chatrooms, to make it easier to identify the orientation of the writer or the person
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is usually given to the submissive partner to prevent the dominant from overstepping physical and emotional boundaries. It is usually a code word, series of code words or other signal used to communicate physical or emotional state, typically when approaching, or crossing, a boundary. Safewords can
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In rare cases, death may occur when the participants engage in activities that have the potential to cause serious physical injury. The most common activity associated with accidental death is erotic strangulation. A study by Bunzel et al. showed that between 1993 and 2017 more death occurred from
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refers to the empowerment of the dominant by the submissive's surrender to his/ her control. Power exchange is consensual and in reality, it is the submissive that has the underlying control during the relationship exchange. The dominant is attempting to satisfy the submissive's kinks and desires.
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activities are females, and the rest are males. A study by the California Graduate Institute in 2008 found that 61 percent of men were exclusively or mainly dominant (26 percent were exclusively or mainly submissive), while 69 percent of women were exclusively or mainly submissive (30 percent were
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and BDSM behavior were a symptom of psychopathology. It was thought that people who participated in this type of sexual play disregarded safety and consent, which influenced the diagnosis, classification, and perception of this type of relationship. These misconceptions of all participants of BDSM
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is a vital element in all psychological play, and consent can be granted in many ways. Some employ a written form known as a "Dungeon negotiation form", for others a simple verbal commitment is sufficient. Consent can be limited both in duration and content. There are many versions of consent but
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limits. It is an agreement that consent is given in advance, sometimes without foreknowledge of the exact actions planned, though within defined limits subject to a safeword, reasonable care, common sense, or other restrictions. The consent is given with the intent of its being irrevocable under
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Negotiation in terms of the sexual scenes is required to ensure that the BDSM play is enjoyable and safe for both parties involved. The discussion of what activities are available and the mutual definition of the play is the only way both the dominant and submissive will be able to comfortably
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D/s participants often refer to their activity as "play", with an individual play session being called a "scene". In addition to "dominant" and "submissive" a "switch" is a person who can take either role. The dominant and submissive relations pertain to two people who play with psychological,
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in the DSM-5. Sexual sadism disorder and sexual masochism disorder have been changed in order to differentiate between consensual and non consensual partners. As well as meeting the new criteria to be classified as one or the other, for example, the person being diagnosed must be experiencing
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A 2019 publication states that a minority of the population engages or fantasizes about BDSM activity. A national study with 2,800 participants showed that about 14% of men and 11% of women had participated in some sort of BDSM related activity and from those results, it was concluded that
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Also, some submissives eschew personal pronouns, instead referring to themselves as "this slave" or "Master Bob's girl". This is sometimes considered an expression of modesty, but it is an entirely optional method of depersonalizing a submissive during "play". It may have roots in the
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have differing levels of urgency - some may bring a scene to an outright stop, whereas others may indicate that a boundary is being approached. A safeword may be used by the Dominant as well as the Submissive if they feel things have gone too far and are uncomfortable continuing.
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After a slave contract is drafted, some celebrate the event with a "collaring ceremony", in which the local D/s community is invited to witness the commitment made in the document. Some ceremonies become quite elaborate, and can be as involved as a wedding or any similar ritual.
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dominant partner. Some subs may wear a "symbolic collar", often a bracelet or ankle chain, which is more subdued than the traditional collar and can pass in non-BDSM situations. It is not uncommon for a sub to have several collars for special occasions. Collars are integral for
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rather than distress coming from society's disapproval. The growth of dominant and submissive behavior, sadomasochism, and other BDSM activity is evident through its history, from ancient times through the separation from disorder to consensual-community participant.
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is used to describe a tool or whip used in sexual scenes. The action of flogging refers to impact play. Usually made of leather with a hard handle and multiple long flat strands attached. The term can also be used to describe the person holding the specialized whip.
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is used as a reference to a space/room designated for sadomasochism play. It can also be used to describe a club where these activities take place. It can also be a place to practice kinks safely and learn how to carry out activities and play.
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and discipline" (B&D), "domination and submission" (D&S), and "sadism and masochism" (S&M). Many misconceptions of this relationship and its associated activities come from the fact that early theorists conceptualized that
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normal circumstances. As such, it is a show of extreme trust and understanding and is usually undertaken only by partners who know each other well, or otherwise agree to set clear, safe limits on their activities.
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The relationship between a dominant and submissive revolves around consent and guidelines. Within the world of BDSM, consent is a core focus and requirement because it is what separates sexual sadism from coercive
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It is possible that this community of BDSM participants was formed in the early 18th century, and maybe even before. For example, the dominant–submissive partnership has been shown in early versions of the
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There can be any number of partners in a D/s relationship: one dominant may have several submissives, who may in turn dominate others, or a submissive may have multiple dominants. Relationships may be
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Physical contact is not necessary, and D/s can be conducted anonymously over the telephone, email, or other messaging systems. In other cases, it can be intensely physical, sometimes crossing into
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may also wear collars as a part of costuming or as fashion. Use of collars in the sexual aspects of furry lifestyle may or may not be connected to BDSM, depending on the individual's preferences.
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humiliation (breast humiliation for its size and shape, clitoris and labia size humiliation, humiliation for not having curvy or big buttocks and hips, small penis humiliation, verbal humiliation)
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Further information on when consent can be a defense to criminal liability for any injuries caused, and when, for these purposes, non-physical injuries are included in the definition of
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can be an element, with partners taking classic dominant or submissive roles, or classic authority-figure roles such as teacher and student, police officer and suspect, or parent and child.
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is used as a description of well-trusted BDSM members that volunteer to monitor dungeons and look out for infractions, distress, or any other form of misconduct or non-consent.
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Physical health complications such as bruising, broken skin, nerve damage due to tight bondage, burns due to hot wax play, or blood-borne pathogen exposure during needle play.
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are used as verbs or nouns to describe the physical play of SM but with less of a focus of the "sadist" and "masochist" part of the activity. They can be used as synonyms for
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For long term consent, a "slave contract" may be drawn up. Slave contracts are simply a way for consenting adults to define the nature of their relationship and clarify
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Levitt, Eugene E.; Moser, Charles; Jamison, Karen V. (August 1994). "The prevalence and some attributes of females in the sadomasochistic subculture: A second report".
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emotional, and/or physical dominance. Most of the time in sexual relationships like this there is some sort of power exchange through their physical interaction
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song "Dominance and Submission" suggests sexual interaction to take place in the back of a vehicle, the singer conflicting between dominating or submitting
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Breslow, N; Evans, L; Langley, J (August 1985). "On the prevalence and roles of females in the sadomasochistic subculture: report of an empirical study".
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Variation in D/s is virtually limitless and the activities take many forms, and may be combined with other forms of BDSM. These variations may include:
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Jozifkova, Eva (September 2013). "Consensual Sadomasochistic Sex (BDSM): The Roots, the Risks, and the Distinctions Between BDSM and Violence".
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A scene between two switches can involve trading off the dominant and submissive roles, possibly several times. In contrast, the terms
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is an individual who plays either role. Two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in a session. The term
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experience. Some contracts can become quite detailed and run for many pages, especially if a scene is to last a weekend or more.
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activity. An additional 22% had fantasized about it, and 12.5% performed at least one BDSM-related activity on a regular basis.
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There are some risks commonly associated with D/s concerning both physical and mental health. Some examples are:
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Richters, Juliet; De Visser, Richard O.; Rissel, Chris E.; Grulich, Andrew E.; Smith, Anthony M.A. (July 2008).
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D/s may be ritualized or freeform. It is usually a negotiated lifestyle, with people discussing their wishes,
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Holvoet, Lien; Huys, Wim; Coppens, Violette; Seeuws, Jantien; Goethals, Kris; Morrens, Manuel (2017-09-01).
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resistance play – forcing the submissive to do something against their will as an intense form of power play
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is the sexual practices of bondage and pain / torture , dominant and submissive, as well as sadomasochism.
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Bunzel, Lena; Koelzer, Sarah C.; Zedler, Barbara; Verhoff, Marcel A.; Parzeller, Markus (2019-10-01).
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activities than from partnered activities, and men were more likely to die in both cases than women.
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song "Love Again (Akinyele Back)" is a 2014 hip-hop release with verses about sexual dominance by
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Based on gender (of the dominant or submissive), D/s can be divided into the following sub-types:
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having disordered tendencies have related to the definition and criteria for sadomasochism in the
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Nitschke, Joachim; Mokros, Andreas; Osterheider, Michael; Marshall, William L. (December 2013).
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Svenaeus, Fredrik (27 November 2013). "Diagnosing mental disorders and saving the normal".
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This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM.
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relationship between a probation officer and her client, sixteen-year-old delinquent Jan.
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Different Loving: An Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission.
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The Compleat Slave: Creating and Living an Erotic Dominant/Submissive Lifestyle.
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Artwork depicting a female dominant performing bondage on her male submissive.
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approximately 10% of adults have joined in some part of the sexual behavior.
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song "Be Mean" (2016) is written about the artist's desire to be dominated.
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SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude — Principles, Skills and Tools.
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The dominant–submissive relationship fits within the overarching term
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Schori, Anouk; Jackowski, Christian; Schön, Corinna A. (2022-01-01).
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International Journal of Offender Therapy and Comparative Criminology
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Negative emotional states during or after partaking in D/s activities
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Erotic roleplay involving the submission of one person to another
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A dominant male publicly parades a nude submissive female using
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A 1985 study suggested that about 30 percent of participants in
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song "All By Myself/Dominated Love Slave" (written and sung by
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Leopold von Sacher-Masoch and Fanny Pistor (Baroness Bogdanoff)
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Queer BDSM intimacies: Critical consent and pushing boundaries
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Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook
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song based on the mind of a Dominant in a D/s relationship.
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How Do They Rate? Elliot Slater and Lasher as Love Slaves,
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Gloria G. Brame, William D. Brame, and Jon Jacobs (1993).
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Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission.
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is used for a sexually dominant male in BDSM practices.
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A woman submissive wearing a typical "slave collar" at
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Playing on the Edge: Sadomasochism, Risk, and Intimacy
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Some people maintain a special room or area, called a
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Dominance and submission have a long history in human
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attached to the collar. The woman is also wearing a
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is a mutual agreement to act as if consent has been
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Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.
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Indiana University Press. 1673:Universities with BDSM clubs 954:Consensual non-consensuality 3606:Service-oriented submission 3065:Archives of Sexual Behavior 2253:Archives of Sexual Behavior 2209:Archives of Sexual Behavior 675:on her back does not fall ( 296:usually refers to a female 176:the claims made and adding 4010: 3873:Commentators and theorists 3803:Risk-aware consensual kink 2975:Califia, Patrick, (1993). 2650:10.1016/j.jsxm.2019.07.008 2593:10.1007/s00414-021-02674-0 2360:10.1016/j.jsxm.2017.07.003 1892:Current Psychiatry Reports 1766:10.1177/070674370805301003 1747:Fedoroff, Paul J. 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