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contempt or something else. the sender may express what he thinks about the receiver (you-statement) and how they get along (we-statement). Depending on which message the receiver hears with relationship ear, he feels either depressed, accepted or patronized. Good communication is distinguished by mutual appreciation.
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The relationship layer expresses how the sender gets along with the receiver and what the sender thinks and feels about the receiver. Depending on how the sender talks to the receiver (way of expression, body language, intonation ...) the sender expresses esteem, respect, friendliness, disinterest,
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The appeal or want contains what the sender wants the receiver to do or think. According to von Thun whoever states something, will also affect something. This appeal-message should make the receiver do something or leave something undone. The attempt to influence someone can be less or more open
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The factual level contains what the sender wants to inform about: On the factual level the sender of the news gives data, facts and information statements. It is the sender's task to send this information clearly and understandably. The receiver proves with the "Factual ear", whether the matter
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Every layer of a message can be misunderstood by itself. The classic example of Schulz von Thun is the front-seat passenger who tells the driver: "Hey, the traffic lights are green". The driver will understand something different, depending on the ear with which he will hear, and will react
198:".") The emphasis on the four layers can be meant differently and also be understood differently. So the sender can stress the appeal of the statement and the receiver can mainly receive the relationship part of the message. This is one of the main reasons for misunderstandings. 242:(advice) or hidden (manipulation). With the "appeal ear" the receiver asks himself: "What should I do, think or feel now?" For Example: "Mothers are very appeal-influenced by children. Mum! The shoes .... Yes! I'll be right there to put them on for you." 215:
The self revealing level contains what the sender would like to reveal about themselves; It contains information about the sender. It may consist of consciously intended self-expression as well as unintended
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message fulfills the criteria of truth (true/untrue) or relevance (relevant/irrelevant) and the completeness (satisfying/something has to be added). In a well-coordinated team, this usually runs smoothly.
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Bünzli, Fabienne; Eppler, Martin J. (2024). "Spotlight on a Thought Leader - How to Become an Effective Communicator: Schulz von Thun's Contribution to Business Communication".
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the speaker - deliberately or unintentionally - reveals something about him or herself, their motives, values, emotions etc.
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contains the plea or desire, the advice, instruction and possibly the effects which the speaker is seeking.
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the speaker expresses, how the sender gets along with the receiver and what they think of each other.
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Pragmatics of human communication: a study of interactional patterns, pathologies, and paradoxes
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contains statements which are matter of fact like data and facts, which are part of the message.
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Miteinander reden: Störungen und Klärungen. Psychologie der zwischenmenschlichen Kommunikation
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Miteinander reden 1. Störungen und Klärungen: allgemeine Psychologie der Kommunikation
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Beschreibung des Vier-Seiten-Modells auf der Website von Friedemann Schulz von Thun
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The four-sides model also known as communication square or four-ears model is a
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You do not know what the green item is, and that makes you feel uncomfortable.
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The other answers: "If you don't like the taste, you can cook it yourself."
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The one who didn't cook says: "There is something green in the soup."
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Watzlawick, Paul; Bavelas, Janet Beavin; Jackson, Don D (1967).
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Theory of Language: The Representational Function of Language
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differently. (On the matter layer he will understand the
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Index

Four sides model

communication model
Friedemann Schulz von Thun
fact
self-disclosure
social relationship
want
communication model
Friedemann Schulz von Thun
postulate
Paul Watzlawick
Organon model
Karl Bühler
speech act
self-revealing
self-disclosure
relationship
want
self-disclosure
Johari window
Karl Bühler
Communication theory
Organon model
Roman Jakobson
Speech act
Subtext
Interpersonal communication
"das Kommunikationsquadrat"

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