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It seems kids of random?? - There is a lot of progress in "dating"/match making in muslim sphere, from apps, to aunties, to mosque centered services, to nonprofit services, to startups like halfourdeen.com - i don't know how to be NPOV with this coming from a conservative muslim background. The other
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Agreed: as several have pointed out, the term 'dating' is American in origin—certainly not in general use in Australia—rare in other English-speaking countries. The article should be titled 'courtship,' be given a through rewrite to carry that through the content and with a redirect from 'dating.'
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Mashing together all courtship as dating does a disservice to the reader. Courtship is a more formal process of finding a mate for marriage. American dating however tends to be a stage before marriage is discussed, which may serve to provide compansionship o sex, and once a couple decides on
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A more accurate title would be "courtship" as the term "date" was not coined until 1896 in America and only as a slang term. Lazy linguistics should not hijack 300+ years of documented human courtship should not be hijacked into a newer American
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Maybe Waller etc are too "meta". Not about dating as much as the history of dating scholarship. Still a window on a moment in the evolutionary history of dating American-style. There's been quite a noticeable evolution during my own lifetime.
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Mmm, it's a primary source of a study just published today. Maybe give it some time for reviews and reactions, see if it gets cited by others. (I can only read the abstract, but it sounds rather duh'ish.)
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Unless there are objections, I will undertake that rename and split into 'Dating,' incorporating those details specific to dating above, and 'Courtship' which would contain the bulk of this article.
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References before late 1800 America should be moved to courtship. Most recent text describing female independance in choosing a mate, by themselves, would be in the subset article on "dating".
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The etymology of 'dating' might be explained in another, shorter article 'Dating' and with a link to this as the main article on 'courtship'. In regard to citations in the
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Rather than being written concisely, as an encyclopedic reference, this reads more like a magine opinion piece about modern dating with a kitchen-sink approach.
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2016 book by Moira Weigel, PhD contains research on the American term "dating" and "date" which can be used for the lede and other references.
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My suggestion would be to identify the portions of this article that are more properly on the topic of "courtship" and integrate those into
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Article should mention the work of Willard Waller, whose work on dating was very influential. Waller, 1937, The Rating and Dating Complex.
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There is currently no Knowledge article for courtship, which has a much longer history globally.
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Yes, just discovered that in my attempt to rename. So, should this article append to '
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There isn't a single citation in the entire two paragraph lede. Completely opinion.
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might be a good stand-alone article; it'll take some research to do it justice.
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That seems a sensible way to do it I’ll make a draft start on that approach.
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to the subject of this article. Relevant policies and guidelines may include
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Suggest article is split into two articles: "courtship" and "dating".
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perspectives (like Pakistan) does exist explored in The Big Sick.
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In a few words, one of the worst-written articles on Knowledge.
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