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The term refers to a question, problem, solution, or controversial issue which is obvious to everyone who knows about the situation, but which is deliberately ignored because to do otherwise would cause great embarrassment, sadness, or arguments, or is simply taboo. The idiom can imply a
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The idiom is commonly used in addiction recovery terminology to describe the reluctance of friends and family of an addicted person to discuss the person's problem, thus aiding the person's denial. Especially in reference to alcohol abuse, the idiom is sometimes coupled with that of the
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because it makes at least some of them uncomfortable and is personally, socially, or politically embarrassing, controversial, inflammatory, or dangerous. The metaphorical elephant represents an obvious problem or difficult situation that people do not want to talk about.
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or which generates disagreement, such as race, religion, politics, homosexuality, mental illness, or suicide. It is applicable when a subject is emotionally charged; and the people who might have spoken up decide that it is probably best avoided.
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The phrase may also be a response to philosopher Alfred North Whitehead's 1929 description of the validity of immediate experience: "Sometimes we see an elephant, and sometimes we do not. The result is that an elephant, when present, is noticed."
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on 20 June 1959: "Financing schools has become a problem about equal to having an elephant in the living room. It's so big you just can't ignore it." According to the website the Phrase Finder, the first known use in print is from 1952.
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used an example of a rhinoceros in the room either to show the impossibility of disproving negative existential statements, or possibly a more subtle philosophical point.
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in 1915. The sentence was presented as a trivial illustration of a question British schoolboys would be able to answer, e.g., "Is there an elephant in the class-room?"
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This idiomatic expression may have been in general use much earlier than 1959. For example, the phrase appears 44 years earlier in the pages of the British
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for an important or enormous topic, question, or controversial issue that is obvious or that everyone knows about but no one mentions or wants to
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that the issue ought to be discussed openly, or it can simply be an acknowledgment that the issue is there and not going to go away by itself.
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was a legal investigation of a Colombian presidential campaign. There were accusations that the campaign of Colombian Liberal Party candidate
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in 1939. The metaphorical elephant in the room represents an obvious problem or difficult situation that people do not want to talk about.
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wrote, "Belinsky was just like Krylov's Inquisitive Man, who didn't notice the elephant in the museum...."
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can appear to be overlooked in codified social interactions and that the sociology and psychology of
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A variation is the phrase "elephant in the corner" which is infrequently used to the same effect.
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The expression has also been used as a metaphorical idiom in Spanish. In 1994, the
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Various languages around the world have words that describe similar concepts.
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The first widely disseminated conceptual reference was a story written by
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It is based on the idea and thought that something as conspicuous as an
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references the term. This was in turn influential in the naming of
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The term is often used to describe an issue that involves a social
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was labeled as the "Elephant in the Room" on the cover page.
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English idiom of an obvious major problem that no one mentions
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